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Terminal illness: Supporting a terminally ill loved one
My loved one has been diagnosed with a terminal illness. How might our relationship change?
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My loved one has been diagnosed with a terminal illness. How will our relationship change?
How can I help my loved one cope with a terminal illness?
Is there a typical emotional process that a person who has a terminal illness experiences?
How do you help a loved one who's in denial about his or her impending death?
When is denial harmful?
What else can I do for my loved one?
Is it important to keep a vigil by my loved one when he or she is near death?
Is it appropriate to tell your loved one that it's all right to let go?
What advice do you have for people who are grieving?
What do you tell people who are struggling with guilt?
Is it important to keep a vigil by my loved one when he or she is near death?
Ask your loved one what they want. Most people wish to die with family nearby, but others might prefer to go privately. Keeping a vigil can be a sacred experience and give a dying person strength and comfort. It can also help you ensure that their pain and symptoms are addressed and that they have access to spiritual resources.
Remember, however, that your constant, physical presence isn't required. If you keep a vigil, take breaks, drink plenty of fluids, eat balanced meals and accept support from others. Also, understand that you might not be at your loved one's side when they die. This timing is beyond your control.
